Activity and Behavior Charts

When used consistently and intentionally, activity and behavior charts can be powerful tools for building positive habits—whether for chores, cooking, volume control, or other routines. Below are helpful tips for using charts effectively, along with links to free printable options.

Tips to Use Charts for Best Results

Be consistent. If leeway is given one time and not another, a mixed message is sent to the child, and the chart loses its excitement.
Make sure that the child understands exactly what the expectations are.
Create a chart that doesn't includes vague, broad language (ie. be good, obey, behave) as there is no way to judge general ideas. The more specific the behavior is, the easier it will be for you and the child.
If the child cannot read, use pictures instead of words.
To begin, set expectations low enough for the child to be successful. Then, slowly raise the expectations. Standards that are too high will lead to frustration on everyone's part. At the same time, do not fill the chart with frivolous expectations.
Don't work on too many areas at once. This will overwhelm the child. Choose one behavior to focus on at a time. (i.e. The child going to bed without asking for additional items - hug, drink, potty.)
Rewards may be based upon a day or an accumulative amount of time but should be simple and inexpensive. Only give a reward if the child has completely finished the goal. Do not cave!
Introduce the chart to your child in a positive way and begin immediately.
Work together to choose a reward. Never underestimate the power of a hug, high five, and penny. Rarely should rewards be expensive.
Give the chart time. Depending on the child's personality and age, it may take several weeks to change a bad habit.
Behavior will not change overnight. And the behavior may get worse before it gets better. This occurs because the child is checking to see if the boundaries are indeed firm and that you won't cave.

Activity and Behavior Charts

Cooking Guide for Kids

Cooking Charts by Age

Looking for age-appropriate cooking ideas to grow your little chef? Tap to the free Cooking Idea for Kids—a helpful guide to teach life skills and create consistency at home.

Volume Chart

Volume Control Chart

Some children—especially those with Sensory Processing Disorder—struggle to understand how loud their voices are. Using this chart along with intentional training helped my son recognize his volume and adjust it based on his surroundings.

1. Download the free Volume Control Chart

2. Read the blog post: How to Teach Volume Control
It walks you through how to introduce and use the chart effectively, plus a few bonus tips that worked in our home.

Chore Guide for Kids

Age-Appropriate Chores for Kids

There is a saying, "Don't do for your child what they can do for themselves." It has become my parenting motto as I strive to prepare my children for the real world. But what are age-appropriate options for children? Tap to download the Free Chore Idea for Kids printable.

Mommy Contract

After much request on the ABCJesusLovesMe Facebook Group, I created this free Mommy Contract to help you be intentional with your family. Post for family accountability or keep in your Quiet Time Journal for daily reflection.

Magnetic Chore Chart

Magnetic Chore Charts

We have tried our share of chore charts and posters. These Magnetic Chore Boards have been by far the best. Click here for directions and tips.

image by brianna

Activity and Behavior Charts

Tips to Use Charts for Best Results